Showing posts with label practice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label practice. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

train your focus (oh yes you CAN!)

Surely there is something, one reliable thing, that always brings a smile to your heart when you see or hear or think about it. That something that always, no matter what else is going on, will shift your mood in an instant. Your child. You dog...or cat...or whatever critter you happen to have in your world. Maybe it's your favorite song. Or that pair of jeans that feel so good when you wear them. That time you were with your love...out on a mountain top or sitting in the sand, toes wiggling in the waves. Maybe it's your special tree...the one that makes you feel connected to all that is good and right. Or perhaps it is as simple as a rose about to bloom in your garden. It doesn't matter what it is, surely there is something that always brings a smile to your heart.

What if...

Every single morning, just before you slip out of bed and land your feet on the floor, you were to think about that thing first. Think about it long enough to see it in your mind's eye and let that smile slide onto your beautiful face. See it so clearly that you could reach out and touch it, whether it is a "thing" or a "thought". Touch it...and let it wash over you as a warm summer rain refreshes your hot, tired skin. And then....

Get out of bed and begin your day. Keep that feeling with you as you make your way to the bathroom to brush your teeth and have your morning shower. Hold on to it as you prepare your breakfast and then sit quietly to enjoy your first repast of the day. Tuck it into your pocket as you dress and head out the door for work. Keep it close with you, all the day through. Even when you're stuck in traffic. Or sitting in yet another boring meeting. Or face to face with that co-worker who always seems to ruin your mood. Carry it with you like a treasured gem, guarding it as you would a newborn child. Guarding it with your Life.

If you would do this, each and every morning, without fail or hurry, you would begin to see a shift that will alter the course of your Life in ways you could not ever have imagined. You would begin to see more things that bring a smile to your heart; and a fading of all things unpleasant. The person who makes you crazy would soon disappear from your experience. The worries that troubled you for so long would fade into nothingness, as the morning fog fades with the Sun's arrival. All the things that brought you tension and/or stress would fall away as easily as a dead leaf falls from the tree. Your world would become so full of miracles you would wonder why you waited so long to wield this simple practice. The practice of FOCUS.

It is not nearly as hard to do this as it is to walk through your day trying to evade the spoilers. Your ability to focus is directly related to your Joy...because the more you focus on what makes you feel GOOD, the less you will find that makes you feel anything less than good. It sounds ridiculously simple, doesn't it? Then tell me why...you do not practice? Why do you dismiss the Joy that is your right? Why do you insist on allowing "them" to push your buttons and unravel your world? Do you suppose it is because you do not feel worthy of such a Life? Or do you think it is impossible to live the Joy that you came here to live?

I wonder why so many find it so hard to honor themselves.

Whaddya think?

Friday, February 25, 2011

JUST STOP!

...."well, my life is really great...except for this one thing...."

Ever hear yourself saying that? Ever notice how there's that one pesky something or someone that just keeps you from ultra-appreciation? Ever notice how that one thing wants to take over all your other thoughts?

Me too.

And then I heard something that made so much sense, I couldn't believe I hadn't thought of it myself.

"Well, just stop thinking about it. Never speak of it again. Just STOP."

hMMMMMMMM.....

Of course my brain wanted to argue the point. "...but how do I do that when it's poking me like a thorn in my foot?"

Just STOP.

"but they just won't leave me alone."

Just STOP.

"BUT....."

JUST STOP!!!

Turns out this is a whole lot easier than I thought it would be. Note that I'm not saying "DON'T think about it." Because there is a vast difference between the two. One is a 'negative' command, which the brain does not register. In other words, when you say "don't do such-and-such", your brain only hears the "such-and-such"; NOT the "don't". Think about it.

Let's say you're about to remove a delicate glass globe from the ceiling fixture so you can clean it. You climb the ladder, unscrew the fasteners, and say to yourself, "DON'T DROP IT!"

KA-BLAMMM! The instant you think the thought, that beautiful glass globe falls right outta your pretty little hands and shatters all over the floor.

Ever do that?

Me too.

BUT...if, instead, you say to yourself, "I'm going to remove this lovely treasure and carry it down the ladder and clean it and put it back up easy as can be."

That is a whole different thought. See what I mean?

So then...back to the point. There's that 'thing' that's buggin' the crap outta you. With a little practice, every time it jumps into your brain you say, "I'm just going to think about something else for now. I'll deal with that later." Turn your attention to something that makes you smile. Turn your attention to something you're happy about. Just turn your attention elsewhere. Pretty soon that thing that's been annoying your for so long isn't going to be a 'thing' at all. Pretty soon (and honestly, it doesn't take long at all!) is going to be in the wind forever. Because as you train your mind to go elsewhere, that thing that began as a huge thing suddenly becomes a NOthing.

Just try it. I'm tellin' ya....



IT WORKS!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

there is no such thing...

There is no such thing as too much gratitude. Did ya know that? Did ya know that the more grateful you are for what you have, the more you will have to be grateful for? Did ya know that when you're in a funk, the fastest way out of it is to look around and find something, anything...to be grateful for?


If you woke up this morning, you have something to celebrate. 
If you have food to eat and clothes to keep you warm, 
you have something to celebrate.
If you are loved, by even just one person, 
you have something to celebrate.
If you've ever heard a child laugh or had a puppy lick your face, 
you have something to celebrate.
If you've ever seen a flower in bloom
 or smelled it's lovely fragrance, 
you have something to celebrate.

There are millions of things to be grateful for, if you will 
just take a moment to look.
I know.
I, too, have had my "moments" when my world seemed so dismal.
Yet, I made my way through and found reasons to be grateful.
It's a terrific little "tool".
It may take a little practice at first.
But if you will just take one second to STOP and remind yourself that you are blessed, 
you are well, you are loved...then you will find the secret to living Joy
 each and every day.
It's all about your choices.
I've said it a million times and I'll say it again....
Joy is a CHOICE.
And gratitude is what gets ya there the fastest.
HONEST!